How To Overcome Shyness In Adolescence and Toddlers

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Many parents feel confused and annoyed with this behavior of their child. They get embarrassed when their friend is asking the child something and the child fixes his gaze on the floor, puts his fingers into his mouth and does not respond at all ! These children may be very assertive and playful at home in the presence of everyday people, like parents and grandparents. But the moment they step out of their house or someone steps into their house, they kind of ‘freeze up’.


Here are few practical ways to encourage shy tots to come out of their shells.
Time and Patience: Don’t try to force the child into situations that are daunting for her. Take things slowly and applaud every step along the way. Some children simply develop these skills at different stages to others, and we may need to exercise some patience.

Manners and Behaviors:  Irrespective of how shy our child may be, there are some basic manners and behaviors that should be expected from our child, including the importance of being polite to others and responding in the appropriate manner to new people. If the toddler is scared of unstructured events then prepare the toddler for new experiences. Tell her where are we going, who will be there and what will happen.
Stranger Anxiety: If in a party, stay with her until she warms up and starts to enjoy herself. During quiet times at home with books and toys, teach her what to say and what to do in social settings. If with a stranger, get her little bit familiarized with the stranger. Resist the temptation to rush in the minute she calls or looks uncertain. Wave reassuringly and chatting to the person.
Getting Along: It may be better (especially between the ages of 15 months and two years) to concentrate on one-on-one sessions with another suitable toddler before trying groups. Toddlers often love and respond well to older children (around six years and up) who are more predictable and patient but are still children. Spending time with an older child if one is available gives them a positive experience to build on.

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